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Monday, April 29, 2019

In sickness and health

     Almost 11 years ago my husband and I took each others hand in marriage. I recently heard that the choice you make when choosing your husband or wife is one if not THE most important decisions you make in your life.  I would add only second to choosing who or what you put your faith in. I had dated several but not many guys before Jay and I met. One was a nice guy and one was a extremely selfish guy... and then I met Jay.  I instantly fell in love with the way that he spoke with other people. I am sure one of the first things I noticed about him, while we were working together in a running shoe store, was the way he listened to people talk and tell their stories along with the way he responded to them. He was not self absorbed and this was evident from so early on in our relationship. One of the other things I remember from early on was when he stopped into the shoe store on a Friday evening before we were even dating. I think he was picking something up, he was in a white T-shirt and was on his way to go see his little sister's dance recital. So now, not only was he interested in strangers, he was supportive of his family.
     All this to say when you are 22 you don't think "sickness" will come if you've had a healthy childhood. You are still in the invincible stage of your life, your back is fine, your knees do not hurt, no chronic illnesses have come knocking on your door. You say the words during the wedding not knowing or really taking stake in the fact that one day, you'll be sick or your spouse will be ill. One day you may be helping them do things physically like tying their shoes, helping them put on deodorant, putting their hair in a pony tail along with taking much more of the responsibility in the house and with the kids, more laundry, more dishes, more meals. 
     When you make the choice at 24 or any age you are are choosing a personality and heart that will be either be selfish when you need them or selfless when you need them. I am so thankful and blessed that my heart connected with my husband and something in me told me (listen to that inner voice young ladies) not to settle for anything less than a selfless spouse because one day they might be putting on your shoes and socks and washing your hair after a bout of "sickness". 

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Half Marathon Training Schedule


Hey Y'all, with it being running season, with so many races coming up in all parts of the country I thought I would share a half marathon schedule I made for a family member. 
I would recommend this for the beginner but not a complete “non exerciser".  
This schedule has 4 days of running and 1-2 days off and 1-2 days of cross training. 
I have seen schedules that only include 3 days of running and to me that does not seem like enough cardiovascular and sport specific training to enjoy the race and decrease chances of injury, so I like at least 4 days of running. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions, enjoy! 
*check with your doctor to make sure you are healthy enough to run a half marathon prior to starting 

Xtrain (cross train = getting your HR up and not running, such as elliptical, bike, swimming, strength training, circuit training 45-60 mins
Week 
#
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Total Wkly milage
1
Off
3
Off or Xtrain
3
Xtrain
2
3
11
2
Off
3
Off or Xtrain
4
Xtrain
2
4
13
3
Off
4
Off or Xtrain
3
Xtrain
2
5-6
14-15
4
Off
4
Off or Xtrain
4
Xtrain
3
7
18
5
Off
5
Off or Xtrain
5
Xtrain
3
6
19
6
Off
4
Off or Xtrain
4
Xtrain
3-4
7-8
19-20*
7
Off
5
Off or Xtrain
5
Xtrain
4
8
22
8
Off
5
Off or Xtrain
8
Xtrain
4
9
26
9
Off
6
Off
5
Xtrain
4
9
24
10
Off
5
Off or Xtrain
8
Xtrain
3
11
27
11
Off
6
Off or Xtrain
7
Xtrain
3
8
24
12
off
6
Off or
Xtrain
5
Xtrain (light)
2
Race Day
26

Thursday, January 28, 2016

Dinner and my attempt at a month long plan

For some reason dinner stresses me out. Lunch sometimes does too but I can usually throw together something decent. I feel like as a SAHM I should be able to manage dinner, you know?
 Get started early, have it ready when its dinner time,  it should be delicious and healthy and I could have the dishes done before bed time. Bahahahha
Unfortunately life gets in the way.
Example of why dinner time is stressful:
#1: My 1 year old is hungry around 5 pm, my husband is not home at 5 pm
#2: My preschooler loves raw vegetable, my 1 year old cant eat hard veggies yet
#3: I enjoy spice, I have kids that don't love strong flavors or spicy foods
#4: I think we are fairly healthy eaters, and I'm trying to keep us that way
So as you can see, the time we eat, what we eat, how we eat just puts me in a place of UGH about dinner, even thought I love to cook and I'm a SAHM (most of the time).
So I decided to try a month long meal plan and I want to share.
So heres the plan and the steps to get to your own if it sounds like something you'd like to try to make your life simpler. (Instructions at the end)

A month of “Boo-ya” dinners
Week 1
1. Peanut Butter Noodle (http://www.dinneralovestory.com/peanut-butter-logic/)
2. BBQ Beef Cups, cucumber salad
3. Salmon, rice and asparagus (http://allrecipes.com/recipe/12720/grilled-salmon-i/)   
4. Sloppy Joes
5.  Bean burritos with Guac and side salad
PIZZA
Left overs
Week 2
1.  Mushroom Pork Chops and mack-e cheese
2.  Beef and bean chimichangas
3.  Tuna Casserole
4.  Left overs
5. Fish & good bread & caesar salad
Pizza
Left overs

Store list for weeks 1-2
S: Spaghetti noodles, garlic, cucumber sticks, Water chestnuts, ginger
M: Beef, onion, biscuit dough, shredded cheddar, bbq sauce
T: Salmon, rice and asparagus
W: refried or black beans, 2 avocados, 1 tomato, onion, garlic, whole wheat tortillas, lettuce, cheddar
R: ground beef, onion, bell pepper

2S: mushrooms, pork chops, onions, elbow mac, milk, butter, cheddar ch.
M: 1lb lean ground beef, corn, bell pepper, taco sauce, 1 can refried beans, tortillas, 1 tomato
T: egg noodles, onion, celery, garlic, mushrooms, milk, frozen peas (1cup), ched cheese (1c.)
R: Fish(sale), bakery bread, lettuce, croutons, parmesan cheese 
Week 3
1.  Broiled Tilapia Parmesan & cauliflower
2.  Shrimp, Cheese Grits & corn on the cob
3.  Greek Salad (epicurious.com)& grilled pita
4.  Chicken Alfredo lasagna
5.  Lasagna goes a long way
Left overs
Some type of large salad or healthy take out
Week 4
1.  Slow Cooker Ham with green beans
2.  Yummy pasta salad and broiled sweet potatoes
3.  Veggie soup and chicken noodle for kids, bread
4.  Left overs
5.  Grilled Salmon with Asparagus and garlic toast
Pizza
Left overs
Store list week 3-4
3M: 2 lbs tilapia, mayo, celery seed, parmesan cheese, bread crumbs
T: shrimp, grits, cheddar cheese, corn on cob (fzen or frsh), red pepper
W: tomato, seedless cucumber, red pepper, pitted kalamata, red onion, fresh parsley, evoo, feta, pita bread (wheat)
R: chicken, lasagna noodles, 2 pints ricotta, mozzarella, Alfred pasta sauce, frozen spinach

4M: bone in picnic ham, green beans
T: Spiral pasta, Italian dressing, cheese, cucumbers, carrots, pepperoni, 2 sweet potatoes
W: onion, garlic (3cloves), celery, carrots, chicken broth, tomato sauce, red wine, kidney beans, green beans, zucchinis, fresh oregano/basil, seashell pasta, parm cheese
R: 4 filets salmon, asparagus, garlic bread

Extra dinner ideas:

Chicken Pot Pie Casserole, taco salad, Slow cooker chicken taco soup, Mexican lasagna, Margarita Pizza and wedge salad, Stuffed Shells and Brussels sprouts,  One pot mushroom spinach pasta, Eggplant Parmesan (nuggets for the kids), Chicken fried rice and egg rolls

Steps of month long menu planning.
1.     Pick a bad ass title for your menu
2.     List out your most used dinners, even things as simple as spaghetti and salad
3.     Use a variety of protein, such as white meat, red meat, beans, nuts, fish
4.     If you have a “we do pizza every Friday” or something you will not need list 31 meals
5.     Also if you tend to have left overs in the fridge, we do because ½ of our eaters are little people, then you can take that into account as well and have a day for left overs (Americans waste a ton of food and designating a day to left overs could help you not waste and save some $)
6.     Check your “Go To” websites and blogs for the rest of the meals, think easy and inexpensive (if you’re into that sort of thing)
7.     Break the list into 4 weeks and rearrange if necessary, such as, if you have 3 fish dinners in one week and none in another week cut and paste to make each week have one fish, and one meatless dinner. Obviously if you are vegetarian or don’t eat red meat adjust accordingly.
8.     Add weekdays and make adjustments for your schedule, if you know Tuesdays are a super busy day then make that your left overs day
9.     Add easy sides such as salad, rice or corn on the cob. I googled some sides, such as “what goes good with pork chops”10. Once things make sense for your schedule start the store list on the bottom of the menu. I’m trying out a 2 week list but may end up doing weekly bc we go to the store quite often.
11. Break down each day on the menu and the main ingredients or the ingredients that aren't regularly in your pantry, I had to go into allrecipes.com and make sure I “favorited” each dinner that was not in my memory or personal recipes so I know where to find it quickly.
12. Use M,T,W,R,F,S,Su. for the week to make sure you are not forgetting any major items on your store list
13. See how it goes